The other day I had a "Day Off". No housework, no shopping, no ironing, nothing domestic at all. I sat in my new chair in the peace and quiet (away from the TV, Samuels's pals and the X-Box) and did some crochet. It was lovely to sit there for an hour or two and do something just for me. Does that sound selfish or is it OK to take a day off every now and again?